Danger Gossip
Gossip is one of the most common problems both at work and in relationships. The
biggest problem with gossip is that most people do not realize when a
discussion turns into gossip and worse still they do not realize the
impact of these rumors. Gossip is a relationship killer and this happens more often than you know and trust. Gossip
is basically anything that can be considered as a negative thing about
someone who talked with others where they do not hear it directly from
the parties concerned. Gossip
can be something very simple without any intention to hurt the person
and also something that can kill a person's character.There
is no single thing positive out of gossip and rumors tend to like
people who talk and people involved when talking about the gossip. There
are also risks that arise when people are talking about knowing people
who have patience with these rumors, as well as pain arising from the
spread of negative information. Some other dangers posed by gossip:• Stress for those who engage in gossip• hurting feelings• Destroying teamwork• Making people are reluctant to share their fragility• Obstruct the communication that requires a sense of trust by giving encouragement to people to keep their mouths• Create a negative reputation
Your Choices Of Gossip
Negative impacts should be enough to convince anyone to avoid gossip, unfortunately, they still do it. Gossip is tempting and often occurs because the behavior of people pushed around. Gossip
world wide open the door for all the new gossip and they tend to make
the people who do not engage in gossip in question to be a victim of
gossip later. Sometimes
it is easier to get involved in gossip rather than take the risk of
becoming victims, and for most people, with a variety of reasons, gossip
has a charm that makes people interested to get involved. Gossip
is a selfish and dangerous thing for degrading and destroying someone
(either directly or indirectly) to make it sound better gossip. This is why gossip is extremely damaging, especially for people who are rumored.The
best thing about gossip is that you can easily keep away from it if you
decide to avoid it and learn some techniques to recognize, handle, and
keep your distance from the problems posed. So how can we do?
Know Gossip
Often gossip is something that is clear and undisguised. Sometimes
gossip can be a simple question asked somebody about what you hear or
know or think about other people or their actions. This may sound like:• Did you hear what Frank says about Sally?• You do not think what John will do this week?• I hear Gerry ...• Have you seen the new girlfriend Lisa?Those
words do not always end up with negative gossip, but they are talking
about other people and quite easy to recognize in a conversation or
start a rumor. Unfortunately, not all the gossip can be recognized easily, and sometimes gossip is more subtle. Gossip sometimes begins talks with a friend or colleague; preceded by talks that eventually led to positive to negative talk. If
you do not talk about ways to help people who are you talking about,
supporting them to resolve problems or other positive action when it
comes to other people; negotiations will most likely end up being a
gossip. Basically, if you're talking about someone else, you need to stop and think if the talks would help him or not. If not, then the conversation is gossip and do not need to continue.
Affect Gossip
"The tongue has the power to save lives or ruin; people have to bear the consequences of his words."Due to very strong rumor, gossip has a great influence and must be confronted through positive influence in responding. There are some actions you can take to fight the rumors.Ignore rumors:• Avoid people who gossip and do not give them the opportunity to pass• Leave the room or conversation when gossip starts• Do not respond to questions that ask the opinion of others or other gossip traps• Ignore rumors and do not start a conversation that led to gossipPrevent gossip:• Never start a rumor of you• Change the subject when a conversation turns into gossip• Refuse to hear or respond to every rumor• Hide the pain or dramatic reaction to the rumor. It is food for gossip to continue.Opposed to gossip:• Say politely that it's better to talk about it with the person concerned•
If you know where these rumors come, meet people and tell them that you
do not like to gossip and it causes pain; regardless of intentional or
not these rumors• If you hear someone start a rumor, ask yourself to see people who talk with the person who started the rumor to discuss• Answer gossip with, "Would it be discussed by others without your knowledge?" And then go• Tell them that I do not like talking about other people because I do not like other people talk about me• Say that you do not like to talk about another person unless such talks can help or support them• Say that you do not want to talk about negative things about another person unless that person is engaged in a conversation
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