You should be aware that mistakes are an important part in the development of self. Do not continue with a dreamy sense of guilt and remorse, learn how you can learn from those mistakes.
A. Sincere apology to and Seriously
If you have made mistakes that hurt / harm to others, is very important for you to immediately apologize sincerely. Make sure that it is truly an accident will not be repeated. A good apology will restore the person's level of trust in you.
Conversely, if you do not apologize, it's likely these people will attack you.
It would be very effective if you personally apologize than by mail or email. However, once you have earned forgiveness, not to make the same mistake again, because it is an absurdity, and very annoying. Immediately correct your actions.
2. Do not Become A The 'Perfectionist'
If you live in fear of making mistakes, then you will spend your life by not doing anything. Not a problem if you make a mistake, because once again it is an important part of life that you go ahead. The more responsibility you bear, chances are you do mistakes became more frequent.
If you always want to feel everything is perfect, always want to avoid the slightest mistakes, over time it will fortify your self in psychology and you become not dare to take risk.
3. Do not Throw Time In Search of Justification
We humans have a nature to justify the mistakes we did. When we make a mistake, an average of our first reaction is to blame others.
"Yes, I've hit the car in front of me, but that is because my friend who always invited me to gossip so my concentration was split ..."
"I can not complete the task on schedule for my computer to crash ..."
Be aware, when a mistake has been made, your boss was not interested in the justification-justification that you create. We find justification for our high ego. Sometimes, the best thing to say, very simply: "Yes, I've made a mistake."
4. Understand Why Such Errors Can Happen
Mistakes can occur due to various errors. To prevent the same mistake twice, you have to understand the root of the problem.
For example, you often spoke in a fast and furious; often do you get the words that are less good. You have to figure out what causes your anger at the time. Maybe you feel very tired or sick to your head. If you make a mistake because you are so tired, try not to sleep until late at night. If you feel stressed, look for ways to make you relax.
5. Avoid Repeating the Same Mistakes
You should avoid feelings of guilt for having continued to make mistakes, but at the same time, you have to find solutions and take corrective action. If you repeat the same mistakes, it shows that you do not have a progress and cause harm / suffering repeated.
Often the error is caused by bad habits. To prevent the same mistakes over and over, you have to eliminate those bad habits. This is not easy and requires extra effort to change habits. However, the faster you can change these bad habits, the sooner you avoid making the same mistake.
6. Error is the Opportunity to Learn
From the mistakes you've made, of course, you will grow and wise. Mistakes, in conjunction with the courage to take risks, is crucial to your success. The important thing is to see the error as a stepping stone to achieve something higher and better life.
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