How To Know Someone Is Lying?

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Able to know someone is lying to you will help your life for the better. Try to imagine a moment ...- Do you have an uncomfortable feeling if you can not quickly find out that someone is memceritakan a lie to you?- Do you live a life where you communicate with people and you often have a feeling like someone is lying to you but you can not identify anyone?Actually, the answer is simple. Look at the movements of the person you are, look at the eyes and smile. Why? Because ..... body language can not lie.I'm sure we all have an experience in which we listen to someone talk and even though the words sounded plausible and real, but there is 'something' that tells us that these people do not seem to tell a truth. 'Something' is actually a message from the brain that wants to protect us. Our brains have a remarkable ability to quickly read all that we see and describe tanda-tanda/sinyal-sinyal. The more we train our brains to analyze things, the more quickly and accurately the ability of our brains.There are two ways in which people interact with each other: the words and body language. Sometimes one of two ways dominates the others, but usually they act in concert together. In brief, the way it works is as follows: after the brain analyzes the words and body language the other person, the brain will send a message to us, which will make us react positively or negatively as suspicion, belief or doubt.When the two this way, words and body language shows a synchronization, we mean the other person and we managed to get an effective communication and information submitted is an honesty. But what if there was a contradiction between the words spoken by the way we say it? I've read that there are more than 1 million body language. So we're here to talk about the incredible amount tanda-tanda/sinyal-sinyal. But again, as I said above, the more often we analyze the body language, the more clever we also define whether we're talking the other person lies or truth. Sometimes we have to combine 2 to 3 body language to get an accurate conclusion.Before we talk more about how to tell if someone is lying or not, it's good you know in advance the 4 types of liars:
1. Occasional Liar
We've all done lying for a living. Occasional unusual liars lie, just for some reason they do it, probably because they want to protect himself, his friends, his loved ones or someone else. Keep in mind that behind every lie there is always a fear. Scared to face reality. Occasional liar really think about what he would say that it seems to make sense. But because they are not used to lying, body language still shows many signs / signals that indicate that they are lying. So it is not too difficult to identify this type of liar.2. Liar Time and time againLiar many times are people who lie 'regularly'. Unlike the occasional liar, liar many times do not have time to think about the lie because they lied all his life. But they actually realize that they are lying. These people are often trapped by their actions that are inconsistent with what they say.3. Natural LiarNatural liars are people who lie constantly and often they do not realize that they are lying. Their body language also looks very natural, because it used to lie. But when they are pressed with questions that corner, his body language showed that identifies contradictions that they're hiding something. Type is somewhat similar to a natural liar liar repeatedly. Maybe you've heard the term 'knowingly', yes this is one example of the type of natural liar.4. Professional LiarThese kinds of liars lie for a particular purpose or deliberately wanted to trick us. They studied all the possibilities and find out exactly what they want to say. They create scenarios, taking into account the risk of failure and makes backup plans. Although they are trained to use body language, but there are always little things that they missed. We can find little things are very often observed, of course. One example of this type is a liar like salesman, apologize in advance that I mean here is that too much of a salesman to promote a product when the product itself has a very low quality. Another example is the politicians are corrupt, they are deliberately deceiving the public for personal gain.

How you can tell when someone is lying?

Not have to be a psychologist to be able to learn and to know that someone is speaking a lie or truth. A psychologist who are proficient can find out exactly the patient is lying or not, like the psychologist who interviewed Princess Diana at the time. He claims that Princess Diana was telling the truth when interviewed about the infidelity of her husband, Prince Charles.You can analyze such a continuous training course. Psychologists can because they are accustomed to reading and analyzing of people every day.As mentioned above there are a million different body language, I will summarize some of the public just to show that someone is lying or not:
1. Body position may be evidence to show that someone is lying, because it realized or not realized there is a strong relationship between thought and expression.

2. A sudden breath. In every lie, the heart rate increases and breathing will become shallow / fast. Liar will usually take a deep breath to calm his feelings. This method is also applied by the lie detector machine, ie by measuring the heart rate of people who are being interrogated / interviewed.3. Restlessness in body parts. It can be seen in various ways, depending on the person. Nervous movement that will attract the attention we feel we can especially when we talk to someone we know and the person doing the unusual. Here is an example of anxiety on the part of the body:- Movement of the body back and forth, whether sitting or standing position.- The position suddenly changed. For example, the person we're crossing one leg over the other leg, and when he started answering our questions, he changed the position of his legs. People who lie, though he is a professional, will feel discomfort when he is lying. The body will always adapt our feelings without us knowing, so that the position changed suddenly this is a good signal that indicates that someone is lying.- Movements are not aware of the hands and feet. For example: their legs, shook hands on the table, both hands firmly glued together, the two thighs pressed together together. If the other person was in a sitting position and then he changed the direction of your foot in the other direction, it is also a sign that the person is lying.- A fake smile. A smile is identical with the familiarity and trust, and the liar often abuse it. So how to differentiate the liars smile? The liar will usually smile quite frequently and abruptly, which actually is not in place he had to smile.- Too many of the actions of 'quasi-familiar', such as patting your back, you touch or get closer to your position. The other person will feel uncomfortable when you lie so they will hide kekikukannya to perform such acts. It would be very difficult to decide that someone is lying if he committed acts in a friendly way. This is a natural human response. But still keep in mind that if you feel that the familiarity of the person you are talking too much, be careful.One again, a very popular proverb says that "when someone is lying can be seen clearly in his eyes.", You may also have heard of it. But for me this way is quite difficult to perform than the above methods.Dear readers, hopefully later on when you're talking to someone, you have to analyze whether the person is lying to you or not.

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