4 reasons why we often Delay

 

The greatest obstacle to success for most people seems to be a delay. Therefore, the most important component of time management (time management) is to avoid any delays.Avoiding delays is also very crucial if we are to realize our dreams. This requires a genuine effort, because we are directly involved in it and should be recognized that this is indeed quite difficult to overcome. We must keep our minds focused on our dreams and desires keep us in achieving these dreams, so that the temptations that we encountered did not undermine our desire to succeed.There are many reasons why we put off - and all of us never do.A. Fear of being wrong or failingWell it seems to get bored talking about the fear of failure. But it's okay yes I am back cover so much stick in the minds of the readers as well.Many of us do not dare to start or stop doing something because we fear the fall. We also often have other fears if we continue to take action and finally falls, we are afraid of being failed by others. Labeled a failure for most people is a very shameful thing. When in fact it's probably just a presumption of prejudice alone, and if true to what we think of these assumptions; what's in it for us? Are we supposed to live than others?But if we only talk about their hopes and dreams, without any strong effort to make it happen, we are limited only to dream dreams, will not become a reality.Although a goal is not achieved, try it yourself is an act of appreciation. The greatest learning experiences come from, of course, through the actions. Many people recognize the person from which he attempts to do compared with the results. Act of trying is a courageous act, contrary to delay action is an act of cowardice. Do not get caught by the word fear as an excuse to delay things.2. Feeling OverwhelmedOften we look at a goal and feel that there are so many things to be done to achieve these goals, we end up feeling overwhelmed and alone. Feeling overwhelmed eventually paralyze us, preventing us from the attempt to take the first step.For every goal you have in life, break that goal into parts smaller (see also the article How to Stay Motivated to Finish What You Start It). Determine what actions are required for each part in order to be successful. If you look at the 'big picture' makes you tired head, take a look at the small steps along the way. Complete a small section at a time, without worrying about the next small section. Celebrate each small successes, and without knowing one day you reach your big goal.3. Human-NatureWe naturally tend to avoid failures due to cause us pain or suffering and inclined to do things that can make us happy. So that we avoid delays, komitlah yourself to do tasks that are not fun first. Have the attitude 'I can', and realize that the sooner you start, and the harder you work, then the sooner the task will end.4. ViewpointIf we look at a task as a difficult thing, it will be difficult task. Rather than surrender, better see it as an opportunity to overcome. Suppose if you are asked to complete a study, look at it as an opportunity to gain new knowledge and increase your mental. Dive into the project with enthusiasm, feeling that any process you went through will improve your ability, you can change the task into a pleasure.An irony of the delay: Many of us complain that we do not have much time, while we spend the time to sit around without doing anything, worrying about work / tasks that are waiting for us.We do not know where fate will lead us tomorrow, so we did the best we can do today. Do not let delays bury your hopes and dreams.