Many have this tendency to blame circumstances for their failure. Financial status of my family is not so good, that is why I cannot go for higher studies. My ill-health is irritating and I could not work hard. Many depress themselves by saying that 'my fate is like this; I cannot do anything in this life.' These are all the thoughts of an irresponsible individual who do not have a goal of his own to achieve greater heights in life.
There are many who are poorer than you; and there are many who are unhealthier compared to you. The circumstances which you are telling are just excuses to avoid your responsibilities. If you cannot respect yourself; nobody will respect you.
If you are waiting for the compliments of others; you cannot achieve anything in your life. Do not do anything only to attract attention of others and for compliments. Self-motivation is one of the key factors for your success. If you cannot motivate yourself with your lofty ideals and great goals; nobody can motivate you. You can motivate and encourage yourself with the following tips.
1.Always remember that you are the one to decide your goals. Do not depend on others to decide your goals. This is what is called self-respect. If you respect yourself, everybody will respect you.
2.You have to reach a level where people fell jealous of you; not pity you for your actions with lack of goals. Do not insult yourself by comparing with others. There may be many specialties in you which they do not have. They may be highly educated; but they may not sing like you. Always pat yourself on your back; realizing your specialties, compared to others.
3.Always inspire yourself remembering the previous victories. One success will cover many mistakes. Remember one success and that will inspire you for the next win.
4.List out all your victories since your childhood whether it is small or big. Whether it is a first rank in your class test or second position in sports; whatever it may be, list out everything which will magically enhance your confidence to move ahead to achieve more successes.
5.Keep the shields, mementos, souvenirs which you have got, in front of you and remember how you grabbed them from the less fortunate losers with your winning abilities. This will help you to realize your duty. Do not develop over confidence and always be practical about your abilities and pat yourself on your back now and then to gain self motivation and achieve continuous successes.
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