Self Esteem For Teenagers

Replacing low self esteem with a positive self esteem is extremely important for teens. Self esteem has everything to do with how you view or value yourself. It's the acceptance, respect, trust and faith in you. Self esteem plays a huge role in a teen's life. It can affect your physical appearance, self improvement or self growth. A negative self esteem leads to failure while a positive self esteem leads to success. This is why it is important to maintain a high level of self esteem.





Teens With A Low Self Esteem





Teens with low self esteem view themselves as inadequate, unworthy, unlovable and incompetent. They are likely to develop a negative body image or physical appearance as well. They are also liable to have personalities that might limit or restrain them from enjoying life. Therefore limiting their opportunity to succeed or experience more. They don't have self confidence when it comes to expressing themselves due to the uncertainly thought or feeling about what they said and anxiety about the listener's responses. As a result, instead of expressing their own thoughts or feelings, they express what they believe the other person wants to hear. This leaves them living on other people's expectations instead of their own.





Some character traits linked to low Self Esteem





No Self Confidence



Inability to expect new ideas and deal with pressure



Pessimism



Blindness to reality



Withdrawal from society



Dependent on others



Insecure



Too much emphasis on what others might think or say about them



Self neglect



Lack of expectations



Hesitant to face challenges



Apprehension of the future



Self dissatisfaction



Put others before themselves



Lack of a positive physical appearance



Lack of self-awareness



Focusing more on the negative aspect of life and personality





Teens with a positive Self Esteem





As a teen, you are becoming more responsibility each day. You have the power to choose right from wrong. With a positive self esteem, you have the courage to be your own person while trusting your own values and making the right decisions when the pressure heats up. You become a free person who has expectations and room to grow. Thereby allowing you to blossom so they entire world can see how breathtaking you truly are. People will love to be around you because of your high physical appearance and self confidence.





Character traits linked to a positive Self Esteem





Rational



Inspiration



Intuitiveness



Flexibility



Capability to cope with change



Independence



Admitting and learning from mistakes



Optimism



Curiosity; Desire to discover



Accepting criticism



Able to cope with pressure



Have faith in your own abilities



Unruffled and stress-free attitude



Confidence around people



Open to new ideas and the way of life


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