Dear Friend,
Do you need self help motivation to love yourself and your life more? Are you looking for ways to feel good about yourself? I understand that sometimes in life, we may feel not-so-good about ourselves or our lives. At that time, we may keep complaining about all the things that happen in our lives. Sometimes we talk to ourselves in negative ways for many times a day, every day. And as we all know, this does not bring any good things into our lives. Most of the times, it sabotages us instead...
Like my case when I was still a girl, I remembered I kept complaining and crying to myself many days for years why I was born as a girl in this family. Even I am a Thai person, my grandparents came from China. So in our family, we have many Chinese cultures. And one BIG thing I felt as a girl in my Chinese family is that my parent cared and took care a son and a daughter a lot differently.
I got this kind of feeling many years and felt sad about it all the times. Until that day, I remembered that I cried to myself very hard in front of the mirror. While I cried, I kept talking to myself "Why was I born in this family?" for quite a long time.
Then...there's a voice coming into my head. "If I was already born, What can I do to make my life better?"
When I heard this question inside my head, I stopped crying suddenly. And I looked at myself in the mirror. And I started to think what I can do to make my life better...Many things I can do has flashed into my head. And I felt better about myself and my life.
Until today, even I cannot tell you where that voice came from. What I know is that this powerful question changes my life forever.
Ask this powerful message "What can I do to make it better?" It could be self help motivation to move life forward.
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