Self Confidence - Two Tip Teaser

So let's start with a base and work up. Here are some tangible tips you can use right away to get you started.

Teaser Tip 1

First tip, this is very hard, so brace yourself; learn to smile more often, wear the smile of a winner in your life. Rule #1, never let anyone see you down; it's a negative world out there... be different and just smile, practice it in the mirror, find your most attractive smile. The last thing that you need is to pull off some quirky, dorky smile if you are not used to it, so find that winning smile and use it.

Life is a mirror, you will reflect back into your life what you give out, that, my friend, is fact. Give a frown and you will attract a frown, give a smile and you will attract a smile.

Remember, bite size pieces to test this out. This week, when you are presented with an opportunity to meet or greet someone, I would like you to be very conscious about what you are about to do. I want you to walk up to this person with your back up straight, look at them dead in the eye, pull out that award-winning smile you practised in the mirror, stretch out your hand and give a firm handshake then say (while you are shaking their hand) just a couple of words like "how are you today" or "welcome" but with an enthusiastic voice tone, people will love you, people love positive people. Note: to all those single people out there who lack confidence, this is an absolute cracker of a strategy, you will become more attractive to the opposite sex.

As much as all this will be uncomfortable for you, DO IT! Just do it OK? And see the response you will get. I really want you to observe the response and how did their response make you feel. Then do it more often, go ahead push yourself and try it 5 times this week, then develop a habit of doing it.

Teaser Tip 2

Go out and buy yourself new clothes, get your hair cut or done, shower, shave, splash some perfume or after shave on. This act in itself will make you feel good, and when you feel good, you have more belief in yourself and when you have belief in yourself, you naturally become more confident. I am always surprised at the amount of men who don't take advantage of the way they are dressed, women on the other hand are fashion queens. Women in general take full advantage of the way they are dressed. If you are a woman, and lack in self confidence, try looking at a new style that will reflect the image of the confident women you want to be, men? Do the same thing.

If you think an award-winning smile and being well dressed doesn't matter much to you, then you have missed the point and you will be on a long journey to find the confidence you are looking for. Get these two tips right and you have laid your first foundation down to start working on the next level of confidence.

Go ahead... I dare you, I dare to win, I dare to push your boundaries, I dare to start the path on fulfilling the person you were called to be.