Male Sexuality - Want to Restore Your Sexual Self Confidence

Do you know that many men suffer from poor sexual self confidence? Do you know that this manifests as premature ejaculation, impotence, a fear of intimacy, a fear of rejection, poor self-image, feeling unattractive, shyness, and a general fear of approaching women just to name a few? Do you know that much of this is rooted in early negative memories of such events as abuse, neglect, humiliation, rejection, abandonment, shame, etc.? Finally, do you know that this need not be a life sentence any longer as much of one's sexual self confidence can be permanently restored simply by deleting those early negative memories from the subconscious mind in much the same way that one deletes old useless computer files from a hard drive? Want to learn more?

Let me use a common example that may resonate with most individuals. Let's say during a seemingly normal and sexually satisfying relationship your female partner, for whatever reason, appears to be sexually unsatisfied or emotionally distant. As many men are very sensitive about their sexual performance and often base their sexual self confidence on it such events can make them feel vulnerable, anxious, unsure of themselves and insecure.

The tendency to personalize the problem i.e. assume that the problem has something to do with them often prevents them from openly discussing the issue with their partner in the moment. Instead they begin to own it only to have it undermine their sexual self confidence the next time.

As you can see this can snowball into a vicious negative cycle of poor sexual performance that can severely damage not only their self confidence but also their self-image, self-esteem, self-worth, and their relationship just to name a few.

Unfortunately, as a discussion of sexual issues often feels embarrassing most men with this problem never get the help they need to free themselves from a life of misery and loneliness.

The resolution of such a problem is now more easily achieved than was ever thought possible in the past. A decade ago it was discovered that negative thoughts, feelings and the negative memories that generate them could be rapidly deleted from the subconscious mind. When this happens the individual is left feeling renewed, restored, self-confident, empowered and like past negative events never took place.

What's more they become more emotionally resilient to similar events, more discerning and more able to effectively communicate about sensitive sexual issues with their partners. This makes them feel more mature, attractive, potent, adequate and desirable.

So if you are one of those individuals who are silently suffering from low sexual self confidence and you would like to kick start your sexual life into high gear then you may wish to visit the web site below where you can request a free introductory coaching consultation that will begin to take you there.